Dr. George Tiller’s killing was not justifiable homicide, it was murder.
Blowing up abortion clinics is terrorism.
Defacing and covering abortion clinics in graffiti isvandalism.
Chanting “You’re next!” at doctors and clinic administrators is threatening them.
Preventing patients from entering a clinic by shouting at them, distracting them, walking in front of them, blocking their way with your bodies, or preventing them from exiting their cars is harassment.
You’re not a good person if you in any way, shape or form support, defend, or ignore any of these actions. Stop deluding yourself.
Baltimore-based electronic whiz kid Dan Deacon has a new record on the way, patriotically entitled America. Last night, he dropped the album’s third track, a buzzy, distorted pop gem called “Lots.”
After the too-long, too-dense Bromst from 2009, it’s refreshing to see Deacon getting back into making quick, excitable electropop with this track. “Lots” clocks in at just under 3 minutes, and manages to cram plenty of whatever sugary elixir Deacon uses to craft his music into that relatively short amount of time. It’s reminiscent of the best tracks from Bromst, like the buzzsaw-powered “Red F,” but stripped down to only the essential elements — messy synths, a playful, childlike beat, and Deacon’s incomprehensible vocals.
Stream “Lots” above, and download the song for free at the embedded link below. America is out August 27th via Domino Records.
Plot twist: the young veins play a concert again Plot twist: the young veins rip their faces off and is actually old panic back together Plot twist: old panic rips their faces off and is actually the academy is back together Plot twist: the academy is rips their faces off to reveal fall out boy. Fall out boy proceeds to play a full length concert.
Are there people with trust issues near you? This handy guide will tell you exactly what to do and what not to do! Spiffy!
Important shit is bold, like always.
Keep in mind! Trust is not ‘I’ll show you mine, you show me yours.’ If you decide to trust someone, do not expect them to immediately trust you back! Do not behave in a manner that makes them feel obligated to trust you, because that will drive them away! That’s shocking, I know.
People are not obligated to trust someone else, even if they’re friends or family. Naturally, there are some people you should trust(ie, a lover) and if you do not trust those people, you should probably reconsider your relationship and whether or not you should be staying with them.
Some people have trust issues and that’s okay. Do not make someone with trust issues feel bad about having trust issues. Because seriously, that’s not gonna make them trust you. In fact, it’s going to make them think very negative things about you because you’re being a dick.
If someone has trust issues, the best thing you can do is respect them and be patient! Don’t rush the person with trust issues. That’s a dick move and it will drive them away.
Here are some other things to avoid:
Not taking them seriously
Telling their secrets
Especially after they’ve asked you not to
Getting mad at them for not opening up
Being generally unreliable
Doing things they don’t want you to do
Continue to do things after they have asked you to stop doing that thing
Seriously if you’re doing something
And someone tells you to stop
Getting mad at them when they tell you to stop
Accusing them of something they did not do
And insisting that they did it
And they didn’t.
That’s fucking annoying.
Not being understanding
Not being patient
Unloading your life story on them and then expecting them to reciprocate
Do something really fucked up and do either nothing to fix it or do so much to fix it that you come across as pushy and a try-hard
Being pushy. Avoid that.
Being too nosy
This isn’t hard shit, guys. If someone has trust issues and you want them to open up to you, you must be patient and you must respect them. People open up to you on their terms, not yours. Do not try and force your terms on them.
Seriously, there’s a lot of shit you should not do and there’s a very short list of shit you should do, because it’s fucking simple. Here is that list!
That’s it!! Seriously!! Wow!! So go forth and go treat people right, fuck.